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WHO DO YOU WANT TO BE? – Best Motivational Video for Students & Success in Life


For me, it – it has been the – to be that guy
that does what people say can’t be done. You know and I think it started with
trying to please my mother and trying to please my grandmother and they always
wanted higher for me. They always wanted more for me and it got to the point that
I wanted to be something. I wanted to be somebody and it made me choose certain
roles, it made me turn down certain roles there is more than an image that I want
to project. I want to be the person that is the first person there and the last
person to leave. That’s what I want to be because I think that the the road to
success is through commitment and through the strength to drive through
that commitment when it gets hard and it is going to get hard and you’re going to
want to quit sometimes but it’ll be colored by who you are and more who you
want to be. I definitely found that wanting to be an actor stems from
wanting to be somebody. My mom wanted me be a truck driver
because that would mean I would make $24,000 a year if I went to Truck
Masters and I’ll be twice what my father made and she thought that would happen
but something inside of me said I don’t want to drive a truck. There’s something else that
matters more to me and I decided I was not going to go for money instead of
passion and the rewards been pretty amazingly better than being a truck drive. It’s
not bad being a truck driver it’s just not what I was after and I I look back
and one of the things that helped me was my original teacher Jim Rohn, who was a
personal development speaker I went to hear when I was 17 he said so the first time I
heard him he said ‘you know it’s really simple if you want life to change, you
got to change. If you want life to be better you’ve got to get better. It’s the only
way it happens and luck will show up for people and it will leave them but if you’re
constantly improving who you are and what you give, game over.
See if you can find some ways to multiply your value to the market
and he said your income will immediately start to change. See if you go through
life holding back and most of us do, most of us if we ask ourselves have we done
all we can do? Most of us will have to answer, no we haven’t. We’ve been holding
back. We have ideas that we don’t act on things we want to do, we’re afraid to take
chances, we go through life trying to seek security and not coming outside of
our comfort zone and we take most of our stuff with us to the grave. Up until then
I was hoping that the economy would change, I was hoping that my company would
change, I was hoping that my paycheck would change, I was hoping that circumstances
outside would change and here’s what I found out. It isn’t going to change. So
then my question was if it isn’t going to change, how will my life ever change
and here’s what my teacher taught me. When you change, when you change,
everything will change for you and I’m saying that the fact that you’re still here
that you’re still breathing you’ve got some more work and you owe it
to yourself. You owe it to yourself so when you get up in the morning that you
can look yourself in the face and say hey I’m living my life on my terms. Change your question, change your life. When
it comes to planning your life I want to get you to learn to ask three questions
now. The question you want to ask yourself is what do I want?
What’s my outcome? What’s my result? The word R.P.M. The first one is to get
you focused on the target. The target is not the activity, the activity can change.
Its what the – what’s the result I’m after. If you know exactly what it is you
really want, what you desire, what you’re really after, clarity is power. The more
clear you are in specifically what you want the faster your brain can get you there
but if you’re generally saying things like what do I want, ‘well you know I want
more money’, ‘fine, here’s a dollar get out of here.’
Whether you get the outcome or not whether you get that result will be
based firstly of clarity and the second thing is whether you get enough
emotional juice to keep going after it when things don’t work out. Did you
achieve the outcome? Yeah, when you’re that general, you might be – you think you’re not getting your goal, you are. The way you language your goal, the way you think
about it, you’re receiving it. You know you know, I, you know I want to feel a bit
better. I want to lose some weight fine, you lost the pound you’re done. When
you get better, everything will get better for you and
that’s where I picked up that phrase: for things to change, you’ve got to change.
You don’t have to change the marketplace you don’t have to change the marketing
plan, you don’t have to change the economy, you don’t have to change
countries, you don’t have to change circumstances out there, all you’ve got
to do is look within and see if you can change yourself for the better and as
you change, things will start to change for you. What’s the result I’m after,
what’s the ultimate result, what do I want out of this week, out of this thing, out of my
business, out of my life, for my body. Don’t concern yourself too much with
how you’re going to achieve your goal leave that completely to a Power greater
than yourself. All you have to do is know where you’re going the answers will come
to you of their own accord. Here’s my best advice: welcome all experiences, you
never know which one is going to turn everything on. Are there going to be some
moments when you want to give up? Yes. Will there be some moments when it’s
going to seem like it’s impossible, the pain that you’re experiencing, the
disappointment that you’re experiencing that you’re going to say it’s not worth
it? Yes, that’s – that’s going to be right there for you. It’s going to be in your
face telling you to go back. When we think about changing our lives usually
that means changing your behaviors or retraining yourself, getting new habits,
going out and trying them out and changing your life. This is about
changing your thoughts and then your life will change. Change your thoughts
change your life. Benjamin Disraeli said nothing can resist a human will that
will stake its existence on its purpose. Shortly put, I’ll do it or die. Know that
all you have to do is hold your goal before you. Everything else will take
care of itself and I can tell you that it doesn’t make any difference what age
you are, whether you’re a teenager watching this or whether you’re someone
in your 60s, 70s, 80s or anywhere along the way, you can make that change. Every
thought, every feeling, every emotion you experience in this lifetime is shaped by
beliefs and values. All of your life is controlled by decisions you make.
Decisions about what to believe, decisions about what to feel, decisions about what to
do and most of us are on automatic pilot letting the world trigger us instead of
taking back control of our life and when you do that, just think of it this way.
Anything you want to change, you want to change your body, you want to change your
career, your business, your relationship what to do requires the right strategy.
If you want to lose weight and keep it off you can’t obviously just throw your
pendulum and go on some silly diet. You have to know the things that’re going to give you
lasting results, so we teach those strategies but some people even know
what to do but they don’t do it and why are we able to get people to do it, to
follow through because 80% of success in anything my friends, is psychology and
20% is mechanics. What that means is there’s how to do stuff and there’s why
to do stuff. How to do it, is not that complex and if you really learn from
somebody who knows those refined distinctions they can – they can show you
those tipping points. Those things you can do where in the least amount of time,
you get the biggest result. As you look at yourself as a business operator, as
you look at yourself as an entrepreneur as you look at yourself as a person that
want to make a mark with your life, that want to leave a legacy, you’ve got to be
hungry. It’s better to be prepared for an opportunity and not have one, than to
have an opportunity and not be prepared. You want to find people who master that
because success leaves clues and that’s the same thing I’m suggesting to you.
Whatever area that you want to go in, if it’s finances and business, insurance
industry, whatever area that you’re interested in, find the people who are
mastering that and follow their example. Watch your relationships. They are nourishing
relationships and there are toxic relationships. Nourishing relationships,
they bring the best out of you, they inspire you. Toxic relationships, they drain you.
People that are hungry, are willing to do the things that the others won’t do, in
order to have the things tomorrow others won’t have. People that are hungry
believe always strive to get on top in life because it’s the bottom that’s
overcrowded. People that are hungry know if you want to be successful, you must be
willing to do the things today others won’t do, in order to have the things
tomorrow others won’t have. If you do what is easy, your life
will be hard. Complain, point at your circumstances, give up your power, blame
the government, blame the economy. f you do what is easy, your life will be hard
but if you do what is hard, your life will be easy. It’s
hard to make a radical change in your behavior.
It’s hard to take ownership, it’s hard to swallow the bitter pill that wherever
you find yourself, at some point in time you made an appointment to be there. It’s hard. It’s hard. If you do what is easy, your life will be hard. If you do what is hard, your life will be easy.

100 thoughts on “WHO DO YOU WANT TO BE? – Best Motivational Video for Students & Success in Life

  1. these words have great meanings man ………………..i am just stunned……………….what i am doing now is easy so my life will be hard shiiiiiiiiiiiiiit…………………………….i will now work hard so that my life is easy

  2. I'm in highschool and I still don't know what I want to be. I want to have a career I'm passionate about over something that earns a lot of money if I could choose but I don't want to struggle. And I don't know what I want.

  3. well, in the human manual i.e. the book that our god has sent to us from more than 1400 years stated
    "God does not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves."
    True are the words of Allah the Almighty

  4. My biggest fear is not being remembered, even though we all get forgotten I want to be more than average in everything I do

  5. This video is great and my son tried to be more better in his academics and sports by settings his goal & slight changes in daily activities.

  6. I love watching these types of videos, they help me through a bad day. Or when I want to give up. I really appreciate these videos they help me to understand I can be successful, I can become something. 💖

  7. i want to be someone who saves this planet.its dying.people are dying.i want to do something bout it.you got to be someone in this world.i want to be the best.

  8. I disagree with pretty much everything is said on this video…This beautiful words are just an illusion. Real life is not like that. You don't decide what to do, you don't decide how to feel, you don't decide a shit, you're force to do things in order to live, and convincing yourself its you who want to do those things, its not gonna change the fact that none of them is a decision. Success in life it's not a carrier, not a relationship, not a grade at school..success is not happiness, success does not make your life worth to be lived.

  9. t dosen't matter wich country you're from you will be always the best don't think because you are asian you know i was thinking that i was weak others are betters but no you are better and you know what you want to do,will be hard but read this "if you do what is easy you life will be hard,but if you do whats hard your life will be easy" he talks about works school and others but you must keep ambitious and always look forward not back you will fail
    i think it will help y'all if not, "if you think of the past it will be done but if you think of the future a long road waits you to pick it"

  10. It is the best motivational video that pushes you to a great higher starting a day with such a mindset will be really helpful in reaching our goals of life a sense of encouragement awake by listening this it is such a meaningful video by seeing this one can start a good and positive day😊

  11. Hi! Well I came here to ask for some advice for my studies. I am actually a so called "nerd" and my classmates and teachers would praise and honored me, but not this time. My classmates were bragging me down like bullying me like they did everything to brag me down from my achievements. Now, well , my grades were fucked down. I want everything to be changed like take things back were everything was good back then. I'm sorry if I had to waste your time to read this attention-seeking-comment but if you had advice to me, please write it down to motivate me somehow.

  12. My second semester just happened in freshman year and i wanna do good but Im lazy and dont try this video helped

  13. While watching this I feel like I'm about to cry. One of my biggest fear is making a wrong decision that I'd regret my whole life. I want to live the life I dream. Again I can't find my passion for something. Life is so hard!

  14. I am a college student, trying to become an architect. My dream is to build my parents the dream house they’ve always wanted. My mom is an il lady and sometimes she gets to the point where we have to take her to the hospital for days. I want to make her proud and so I go to college, I found a job, and I’m trying to be a successful youtuber. I will not rest until I make my mother happy. I barely get any sleep, I working/learning/and working again. I promised myself by the end of this year I will pass all my classes with a great GPA, I promise myself by the end of this year I will make a great allowance, and by the end of this year I will reach my goal on one thousand subscribers.

    Never give up 🙏

  15. I want to rise above. Muhammad Ali said to service is to pa your debt in living, or I think he said so, so I wanna do something great and change the world.

  16. I am an online student and I'm in my 7th grade year, and this is by far the hardest school year I've had so far. I only have about a month left in my courses and I just need one final push. And these videos do help.

  17. Wow. What a plethora if GREAT advice from a wide variety of great orators: Jim Rohn, Tony Robbins, Les Brown, Napoleon Hill (or Earl Nightingale, not sure), etc, etc, etc……

    HOLY SMOKES. Get your kids in on this. This is the one KEY thing that was missing from my childhood. Now I am trying to reprogram myself. Press through my friends!

  18. your life is little but you have plenty of time to complete your life. You have to be prepared for everything

  19. Why I'm here?? Coz I need someone/something to motivate me, I'm already 23 y/o and I'm not done yet with my study ,for short I'm undergraduate of col. And I'm afraid for my future , I want to finish it but my family is in financially problem😢 I really want to be a chef at the same time a doctor ,but Idk if I can persue it…

  20. When I watch these videos I don't follow the steps y'all are saying but life Is hard but we will one day success in life life will be easy

  21. This is something most need to know and UNDERSTAND the HUMAN BEING , MAN or WOMAN' and PERSON YOU will be is YOU no one but YOU .The FIRST YOU and the LAST YOU , that is not too say YOU can LOOK to others in LIFE around YOU as ROLE MODELS or MENTORS in LIFE . Never try and be ANYONE but YOURSELF because all YOU ever will be in LIFE'. Try to EMILATE or COPY someone ELSE iñ LIFE YOU may beso CAUGHT UP in trying to that INDIVIDUAL or HUMAN BEING or MAN or WOMAN that the INDIVIDUAL or MAN or WOMAN YOU could have been LIFE becomes LOST and NEVER found . Who knows YOU may have ROBBED the WORLD and HUMAN BEINGS around of a GOOD HUMAN BEING who could have IMPACTED YOUR COMMUNITY , NATION , SOCIETY or someone who could have CONTRIBUTIVE GREATLY to the BETTERMENT of ALL by trying to be SOMEONE YOU COULD EVER HOPE to get n LIFE anyway. Do not BUY into the HYPE of the WAY in LIFE YOU have DONE anything or CONTRIBUTE to it is by TRYING to be SOMEONE YOU could have been in the FIRST PLACE. NEVER LISTEN to ANYONE who tells YOU that , be ALL YOU can be in LIFE LIVE UP to YOUR FULL POTENTIAL in LIFE as HUMAN BEING . YOU may not LIVE UP to EVERYONE'S EXSPECTIONS of YOU in LIFE , bit for GOD'S SAKE NEVER LIVE DOWN to ANYONE EITHER.

  22. I can't talk English language but some words r understand thank you but I will try to speak and write in English language

  23. Its my tragic back story:
    So here i now should've being a few conversation to be with madam Lilis Rosita about almost 2 decades 2002-2019 ago…

    Do you know madam / know when I see you with a look that is very, very indecent or disrespectful at that time I really did not expect or did not expect to be able to suddenly act like that suddenly and I'm really afraid you hate and get angry with me I am really shy until I forget to give greetings at least to knock on the door first, hopefully you understand the situation and conditions that happened to me at that time until there were no things that were not desired or more embarrassing to say what should I teach my classmates or friends who bullied me

    2003…How would be nice if they have were going in the room of toilet turned become a cleaning service or park guard…

  24. i’m only 15 and i really have big goals in life. people often look down and laugh at my goals saying that it won’t happen and that i’m just a regular young girl who’s giving herself false hope. but my greatest motivation are those same people. i know that i can prove them all wrong someday!!!!

  25. This will be my first year of college after being out of high school 5 years, had my daughter and dealt with many financial difficulties….I am nervous but I know that I can make it happen…with change, dedication and motivation. Didn’t really excel during high school but I am on a different page…I know GOD will be with me every step of the way, amd these videos makes me want to start and not stop.

  26. Can someone help? I'm stuck between two choices. I'm in my senior year of hs and I am scared I know what I want in simple terms. I know I want to be happy, i want to matter, to do something fun with my life, adventure, action and at the same time I want it balanced, I want enough time to do things like relax and meditate and just chill. But I dont know how to get there. I haven't found that perfect job. I'm creative but I dont want to get a creative job because it's too boring. And i thought about being a police officer, but i might not get a lot of free time. So i dont know what i want because i haven't foundit, how do I find it? What can I do? I'm just lost right now.. I dont know what my dream is or what my passion is. People often tell me I'm good at a lot of things but I see it as a jack of all trades and a master of none

  27. I left my dear ones my dad my siblings and here I am to make life amazing for me and my family and above all the up and coming

  28. I really really really wanted to become a social worker and fight for either children or animals' rights but..
    My brother and mother scolded me so much and told me to think and become more professional when I told them what I wished to be in the future..
    They want me to become a doctor and I guess I will have to just to please them and to avoid being a disgrace..
    I guess my dreams shall remain dreams.. 💔

  29. Remember, just to listen at this motivational speeches doesn’t make you successfull. It all comes down to you doing it. This is the start, the rest is yours

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  31. I was diagnosed with stage 3 cancer of the colon a few months back
    For a week I thought all my dreams were over
    Then I met my surgeon and was told they were going to operate and cut it out
    THAT was the moment my second life began
    I’ve had the operation and I’m living my life free from wanting and desiring
    All I do now is have ONE goal – Make someone happy EVERY day
    When this happens to you EVERYTHING changes ; you release fears, of what people may think, of what SEEMED to be important and you gain fearlessness and the willingness to do unselfish things that make YOU happier than you’ve ever been in your whole life👍

  32. You know I look at these videos and I want to be a youtuber/gaming channel but I just feel like I can’t because it’s so hard to grow I put hours into my streams but I delete them because I average 2 views but am gonna keep going and see where I make it hope god I make it somewhere

  33. Pay for it. The rent has to be paid employees have to be. He you people are not getting the message that they're saying. Listen to the message again. You guys are complaining about commercials when you're getting something for free something very valuable. Change your attitude people.

  34. Wait are they saying acting means you are successful 20k square foot homes with dozen air conditioners running leaving a huge carbon footprint making stupid and I mean stupid action movies with huge explosions fucking up the environment passing homeless people's in their 1 of 3 or more SUVs these people are the problem not something to strive for yet they love to tell you how you should live or maybe I'm completely wrong about this videos message

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